Depression in Humans: What are the differences and HOW to defeat it

 

 

Is depression different amongst humans, whether they be male, female or nonbinary? In so many words, yes. As far as symptom patterns tend to play out, they will usually fall in line with the two major genders. For women, the symptoms are more readily visible (i.e. crying, overeating) as for men, the symptoms are more subdued (i.e. working to excess, drinking/abusing drugs, working out to excess). In any case, the symptoms of depression may in fact hit men harder due to lifestyle choices and extracurricular activities.

Here are the top 5 signs of depression for men:

  • Self-medication (abuse of controlled substances, abuse of alcohol and abuse of medications)
  • Escapism (working more, working out to excess, retreating into more ‘childlike’ pastimes such as video gaming, LARP, etc)
  • Irritability
  • Risk-taking becoming a regular part of life (reckless driving, driving under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol)
  • Becoming controlling, violent and/or abusive

 

 

Studies show that women are 3X as likely than men to be diagnosed with depression than men are and are at least 2X as likely to seek treatment for it. Here is a list of the top 7 causes/triggers for depression in women:

 

  • Puberty (biological and social fallout from it- not fitting in, body image, etc)
  • Premenstrual difficulty
  • Pregnancy
  • Postpartum depression
  • Perimenopause/menopause
  • Trials and tribulations of life itself
  • Accompanying conditions of depression (anxiety, substance abuse and/or eating disorders)

 

Why the differences?

 

Obviously with traditional gender roles for the main two genders being as they are, women are afforded more avenues to get help and to communicate their feelings. Men are taught to “man up”, to be “strong” and to shun help. For men, them seeking help is often a result of not being able to function correctly (in some cases not at all) as the symptoms of depression interfere with life itself.

 

What to do about it

 

Whether you’re male, female, nonbinary or anywhere within the gender spectrum, the treatment for depression is a combination of psychotherapy and medication. Please know that it will take some research, patience and working with your mental health provider to develop the action plan to defeat depression. You and your mental health provider will have to figure out what works and what doesn’t work moving forward. As for the side effects of the medication(s), most of the side effects will go away on their own, usually within the first 3-6 weeks of taking them. As always, listen to your body and alert your mental health provider in lieu of any complications.

 

 

SOURCES

Gorman, J.M. “Gender Differences in depression and response to psychotropic medication”. Gender medicine 3.2 (2006): 93-109

Winkler, Dietmar et al. “Gender-specific symptoms of depression and anger attacks”. The Journal of Men’s Health & Gender 3.1 (March 2006): 19-24

“Male Depression: Understanding the Issues”. Mayo Clinic (2013)

“Depression In Women: Understanding the Gender Gap”. Mayo Clinic (2016

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8 EZ MEALS FOR ONE

   
  1. CHICKEN  & BLACK BEAN TOSTADA
    Ingredients
  • 1 6-inch corn tortilla, baked
  • 1/4 cup (42.5 g) canned black beans, rinsed and drained
  • 6 tablespoons (42.5 g) rotisserie chicken breast meat, shredded
  • 1/4 cup (12.5 g) romaine lettuce, thinly sliced
  • 1/4 cup (65 g) tomato salsa
  • 2 tablespoons (15 g) cheddar cheese, shredded

Directions

Top tortilla with black beans, chicken, romaine, salsa and cheese.

Nutrition Information

Serves: 1 | Serving Size: 1 tostada

Per serving: Calories: 233; Total Fat: 7g; Saturated Fat: 5g; Monounsaturated Fat: 1g; Cholesterol: 23mg; Sodium: 494mg; Carbohydrate: 24g; Dietary Fiber: 7g; Sugar: 5g; Protein: 22g

Nutrition Bonus: Potassium: 412mg; Iron: 8%; Vitamin A: 33%; Vitamin C: 1%; Calcium: 15%

  1. OPEN-FACED STEAK SANDWICH

    Ingredients

  • 1 ½ teaspoon (6 g) cooking oil
  • 1/8 pound (60 g) skirt steak, trimmed
  • 1/8 medium (14 g) yellow onion, sliced
  • 1 slice (30 g) Italian bread
  • 1 slice (30 g) sharp cheddar
  • 1/4 medium (20 g) bell pepper, sliced

Salt and pepper, to taste

Directions

Preheat oven to 425°F and coat a baking sheet with cooking spray. Season steak with salt and pepper.

Preheat a small nonstick skillet, coated with cooking oil, over medium heat. When pan is hot, add the steak. Cook for 3–4 minutes on each side or until steak reaches desired doneness. Set aside until cool; slice thinly.

Sauté onions in the same pan, on medium-high heat, until golden brown. Set aside.

Add the bread to the baking sheet. Top with cheddar cheese. Bake for about 5 minutes until cheese is melted.

Layer the steak, onions and bell peppers onto bread and serve.

Nutrition Information

Serves: 1 |  Serving Size: 1 open-faced sandwich

Per serving: Calories: 296; Total Fat: 16g; Saturated Fat: 6g; Monounsaturated Fat: 4g; Cholesterol: 57mg; Sodium: 432mg; Carbohydrate: 18g; Dietary Fiber: 2g; Sugar: 2g; Protein: 20g

Nutrition Bonus: Potassium: 305mg; Iron: 12%; Vitamin A: 6%; Vitamin C: 36%; Calcium: 18%

  1. CRANBERRY TURKEY ROLL-UP

    Ingredients

  • 1 10-inch 100% whole-grain tortilla (about 190 calories)
  • 2 tablespoons (35 g) canned whole-berry cranberry sauce
  • 3 thin slices (85 g) deli turkey breast
  • 1/2 medium (60 g) tomato, halved and sliced
  • 3 small lettuce leaves, washed
  • 1 slice (28 g) Swiss cheese, halved

Directions

Place tortilla on a large plate and microwave for 10–20 seconds.

Spread 2 tablespoons cranberry sauce in center of the tortilla. Layer turkey slices, tomatoes, lettuce and cheese on top leaving a  1–2 inch border.

Fold in the sides of the tortilla, then tightly roll toward the top. Slice and enjoy!

Nutrition Information

Serves: 1 | Serving Size: 1 roll

Per serving: Calories: 392; Total Fat: 12g; Saturated Fat: 5g; Monounsaturated Fat: 2g; Cholesterol: 50mg; Sodium: 235mg; Carbohydrate: 36g; Dietary Fiber: 6g; Sugar: 5g; Protein: 30g

Nutrition Bonus: Potassium: 531mg; Iron: 18%; Vitamin A: 29%; Vitamin C: 46%; Calcium: 2

  1. LOW-CARB BLT WRAP

Ingredients

  • 2 slices (20 g) center-cut bacon
  • 1/4 medium (15 g) lemon
  • 2 tablespoons (30 g) reduced-fat mayonnaise
  • 2 large basil leaves, finely chopped
  • 2 large bibb lettuce leaves
  • 1 medium (90 g) Roma tomato, thinly sliced
  • 1 large (50 g) hard-boiled egg, peeled and sliced
  • Dash of coarsely ground black pepper

Directions

Cook bacon to desired doneness. Set aside on paper towels to drain excess fat.

Grate 1/8 teaspoon lemon zest into a small bowl. Squeeze about 1/2 teaspoon lemon juice into the same bowl. Stir in mayonnaise and basil.

Spread 1/2 tablespoon mayonnaise mixture on each lettuce leaf. Top with tomato, egg, and bacon. Sprinkle with pepper. Wrap leaves around filling and enjoy.

Nutrition Information

Serves: 1 |  Serving Size: 2 lettuce wraps

Per serving: Calories: 280; Total Fat: 16g; Saturated Fat: 4g; Monounsaturated Fat: 2g; Cholesterol: 207mg; Sodium: 464mg; Carbohydrate: 12g; Dietary Fiber: 3g; Sugar: 7g; Protein: 12g

Nutrition Bonus: Potassium: 121mg; Iron: 6%; Vitamin A: 11%; Vitamin C: 11%; Calcium: 3%

PUMPKIN PIE OATMEAL

Ingredients

  • 1/2 cup (122 g) low-fat milk
  • 1/4 cup (60 g) water
  • 2/3 cup (50 g) quick oats
  • 3 teaspoons (15 g) canned pumpkin puree
  • 1/4 teaspoon (1.5 ml) vanilla extract
  • Dash of salt
  • Dash of pumpkin pie spice
  • 1/2 tablespoon (10.5 ml) honey

Directions

Combine milk and water in saucepan and heat over medium-low heat for 2–3 minutes. Add remaining ingredients, except for the honey, and stir until well combined. Allow the oatmeal to simmer for 2–3 minutes. Add honey and enjoy!

Nutrition Information

Serves: 1 |  Serving Size: 1 cup oatmeal (230 grams)

Per serving: Calories: 284; Total Fat: 5g; Saturated Fat: 1g; Monounsaturated Fat: 1g; Cholesterol: 8mg; Sodium: 231mg; Carbohydrate: 45g; Dietary Fiber: 5g; Sugar: 17g; Protein: 13g

Nutrition Bonus: Potassium: 267mg; Iron: 14%; Vitamin A: 40%; Vitamin C: 6%; Calcium: 21%

  1. CHICKEN & BLACK BEAN TOSTADA

Ingredients

  • 1 6-inch corn tortilla, baked
  • 1/4 cup (42.5 g) canned black beans, rinsed and drained
  • 6 tablespoons (42.5 g) rotisserie chicken breast meat, shredded
  • 1/4 cup (12.5 g) romaine lettuce, thinly sliced
  • 1/4 cup (65 g) tomato salsa
  • 2 tablespoons (15 g) cheddar cheese, shredded

Directions

Top tortilla with black beans, chicken, romaine, salsa and cheese.

Nutrition Information

Serves: 1 | Serving Size: 1 tostada

Per serving: Calories: 233; Total Fat: 7g; Saturated Fat: 5g; Monounsaturated Fat: 1g; Cholesterol: 23mg; Sodium: 494mg; Carbohydrate: 24g; Dietary Fiber: 7g; Sugar: 5g; Protein: 22g

Nutrition Bonus: Potassium: 412mg; Iron: 8%; Vitamin A: 33%; Vitamin C: 1%; Calcium: 15%

  1. OPEN-FACED STEAK SANDWICH

    Ingredients

  • 1 ½ teaspoon (6 g) cooking oil
  • 1/8 pound (60 g) skirt steak, trimmed
  • 1/8 medium (14 g) yellow onion, sliced
  • 1 slice (30 g) Italian bread
  • 1 slice (30 g) sharp cheddar
  • 1/4 medium (20 g) bell pepper, sliced

Salt and pepper, to taste

Directions

Preheat oven to 425°F and coat a baking sheet with cooking spray. Season steak with salt and pepper.

Preheat a small nonstick skillet, coated with cooking oil, over medium heat. When pan is hot, add the steak. Cook for 3–4 minutes on each side or until steak reaches desired doneness. Set aside until cool; slice thinly.

Sauté onions in the same pan, on medium-high heat, until golden brown. Set aside.

Add the bread to the baking sheet. Top with cheddar cheese. Bake for about 5 minutes until cheese is melted.

Layer the steak, onions and bell peppers onto bread and serve.

Nutrition Information

Serves: 1 |  Serving Size: 1 open-faced sandwich

Per serving: Calories: 296; Total Fat: 16g; Saturated Fat: 6g; Monounsaturated Fat: 4g; Cholesterol: 57mg; Sodium: 432mg; Carbohydrate: 18g; Dietary Fiber: 2g; Sugar: 2g; Protein: 20g

Nutrition Bonus: Potassium: 305mg; Iron: 12%; Vitamin A: 6%; Vitamin C: 36%; Calcium: 18%

  1. CRANBERRY TURKEY ROLL-UP

    Ingredients

  • 1 10-inch 100% whole-grain tortilla (about 190 calories)
  • 2 tablespoons (35 g) canned whole-berry cranberry sauce
  • 3 thin slices (85 g) deli turkey breast
  • 1/2 medium (60 g) tomato, halved and sliced
  • 3 small lettuce leaves, washed
  • 1 slice (28 g) Swiss cheese, halved

Directions

Place tortilla on a large plate and microwave for 10–20 seconds.

Spread 2 tablespoons cranberry sauce in center of the tortilla. Layer turkey slices, tomatoes, lettuce and cheese on top leaving a  1–2 inch border.

Fold in the sides of the tortilla, then tightly roll toward the top. Slice and enjoy!

Nutrition Information

Serves: 1 | Serving Size: 1 roll

Per serving: Calories: 392; Total Fat: 12g; Saturated Fat: 5g; Monounsaturated Fat: 2g; Cholesterol: 50mg; Sodium: 235mg; Carbohydrate: 36g; Dietary Fiber: 6g; Sugar: 5g; Protein: 30g

Nutrition Bonus: Potassium: 531mg; Iron: 18%; Vitamin A: 29%; Vitamin C: 46%; Calcium: 28%

  1. LOW-CARB BLT WRAP

Ingredients

  • 2 slices (20 g) center-cut bacon
  • 1/4 medium (15 g) lemon
  • 2 tablespoons (30 g) reduced-fat mayonnaise
  • 2 large basil leaves, finely chopped
  • 2 large bibb lettuce leaves
  • 1 medium (90 g) Roma tomato, thinly sliced
  • 1 large (50 g) hard-boiled egg, peeled and sliced
  • Dash of coarsely ground black pepper

Directions

Cook bacon to desired doneness. Set aside on paper towels to drain excess fat.

Grate 1/8 teaspoon lemon zest into a small bowl. Squeeze about 1/2 teaspoon lemon juice into the same bowl. Stir in mayonnaise and basil.

Spread 1/2 tablespoon mayonnaise mixture on each lettuce leaf. Top with tomato, egg, and bacon. Sprinkle with pepper. Wrap leaves around filling and enjoy.

Nutrition Information

Serves: 1 |  Serving Size: 2 lettuce wraps

Per serving: Calories: 280; Total Fat: 16g; Saturated Fat: 4g; Monounsaturated Fat: 2g; Cholesterol: 207mg; Sodium: 464mg; Carbohydrate: 12g; Dietary Fiber: 3g; Sugar: 7g; Protein: 12g

Nutrition Bonus: Potassium: 121mg; Iron: 6%; Vitamin A: 11%; Vitamin C: 11%; Calcium: 3%

 

  1. PUMPKIN PIE OATMEAL

Ingredients

  • 1/2 cup (122 g) low-fat milk
  • 1/4 cup (60 g) water
  • 2/3 cup (50 g) quick oats
  • 3 teaspoons (15 g) canned pumpkin puree
  • 1/4 teaspoon (1.5 ml) vanilla extract
  • Dash of salt
  • Dash of pumpkin pie spice
  • 1/2 tablespoon (10.5 ml) honey

Directions

Combine milk and water in saucepan and heat over medium-low heat for 2–3 minutes. Add remaining ingredients, except for the honey, and stir until well combined. Allow the oatmeal to simmer for 2–3 minutes. Add honey and enjoy!

Nutrition Information

Serves: 1 |  Serving Size: 1 cup oatmeal (230 grams)

Per serving: Calories: 284; Total Fat: 5g; Saturated Fat: 1g; Monounsaturated Fat: 1g; Cholesterol: 8mg; Sodium: 231mg; Carbohydrate: 45g; Dietary Fiber: 5g; Sugar: 17g; Protein: 13g

Nutrition Bonus: Potassium: 267mg; Iron: 14%; Vitamin A: 40%; Vitamin C: 6%; Calcium: 21%. 1-MINUTE BERRY PEANUT BUTTER SMOOTHIE

Ingredients

  • 3 ounces (80 g) fresh or frozen raspberries
  • 1 tablespoon (15 ml) reduced-fat milk
  • 1 tablespoon (15 ml) creamy natural peanut butter
  • 1/2 teaspoon (2.5 ml) honey
  • 1/2 cup ice cubes

Directions

Add all ingredients to a blender and process until smooth.

Nutrition Information

Serves: 1 |  Serving Size: 1/2 cup

Per serving: Calories: 156; Total Fat: 8g; Saturated Fat: 1g; Monounsaturated Fat: 0g; Cholesterol: 1mg; Sodium: 57mg; Carbohydrate: 19g; Dietary Fiber: 7g; Sugar: 9g; Protein: 5g

Nutrition Bonus: Potassium: 23mg; Iron: 10%; Vitamin A: 1%; Vitamin C: 41%; Calcium: 2%

Best Exercises for Teens

BEST EXERCISES FOR TEENS

This article is about the teenagers. That period of rapid growth and maturity. Experimentation and lessons learned. It can also be about fitness and wellness, which is right in our wheelhouse. Do you (as a parent, coach or teacher) have a teen who is not really adjusting well to fitness? Maybe he/she is a hardgainer, or the teenager has a very low metabolism. I have a list of very easy (and very good exercises that can help turn the tide in the favor of fitness) exercises that can make a difference in a teen’s life. As always, seek the advice of a physician. This article is not a substitiute for sound medical advice or opinion. Now, the list.

The best exercise routine consists of three basic components: 1) aerobics, 2) strength training and 3) flexibility/ stretching.
Aerobics: aerobic exercises quicken your heart rate and breathing, and are good for your heart.
Some great aerobic exercises are: rowing, basketball, lacrosse, hockey, soccer, swimming, running, dancing, tennis, biking and boxing.

 

Strength training: strengthening your muscles allow you to be able to increase your endurance. Also, muscle burns fat better, so the more muscle you have, the more calories you can burn.
Pull-ups, push-ups, rowing, running, squats, crunches, biking, any type of weight lifting
Flexibility: A flexible person has a lower chance of getting sprains and strained muscles
Dance, ballet, martial arts, yoga, Pilates, gymnastics
How do I know what exercise is best for me?
Pick something that you find interesting – if you hate running, don’t run!!!
Do you like to work out alone? Or with a group of people?
Ask a coach or gym teacher how you can get involved with a certain activity or sport
Talk to a doctor if you are unsure whether a certain exercise plan is right for you
Why is exercise so good for you?
Exercise produces brain chemicals called endorphins that make people feel happy
Exercise helps people sleep better (just don’t work out right before you want to sleep!)

It keeps your body at a healthy, managable weight
Lowers your risk for certain diseases such as diabetes and high blood pressure
Keeps your bones strong – so no osteoporosis when you are older!
Helps you lose weight

How much exercise should I be getting?
Experts recommend that teenagers work out for at least one hour every day. The exercise should be “moderate to vigorous”.
Is there such thing as exercising too much?
Yes, and it is called compulsive exercise. Because teenagers’ bodies are still developing, they need enough calories to support that process. Exercising too much burns all the calories necessary to develop and function properly. Too much exercise is also a sign of a possible eating disorder. It is also possible to train too much for a certain sport. High school athletes should not train more than five days a week, and should have two or three months of rest per year. It is not recommended that you exercise with an injury – it will only retard the healing process.

Also, exercise is a great way for teens to discover things about themselves, socialize with others and to be able to see themselves in a different way. In closing, with the obesity epidemic in America today really hitting the teens hard, exercise for teens should be mentioned as a way to help them build for the future. Exercising is free, and should be a basic part of anyone’s life, especially for teens. THE BASICS ALWAYS WIN.

MENTAL TOUGHNESS

In keeping with The Total Self, this article is a continuation of an earlier article I have written about this topic.I have spoken about mental toughness on oregonsportsnews.com, my own blogs and other social media platforms. I have given speeches about this also. The number one thing I believe that is holding people back in life other than broken focus and a solid plan (plus the willingness to execute) is a lack of mental toughness. It is not necessarily a bad thing that most people are not “hard”. You need people who are a tad softer, normal people in this world. This world would be in bad shape if it were just “Type As” all over the place. But you can learn from the Type A. Learn how to not let things stop you, how not to be a victim, and how not to allow things that have tormented you for years have any more control over you.
Mental Toughness has many definitions and is not limited to athletic performance and pain tolerance. I have known many men and women throughout my life who I would define as “mentally tough”. From an 85 year old gardener to a high school football friend, who it seemed neither ever had a bad day. Much of mental toughness is simply attitude and self-determination. If you do a quick search online on the subject, you will see a variety of mental toughness techniques, articles, stories of remarkable physical performances to brave acts of heroism overcoming insurmountable odds and fear.
On a personal note, mental toughness is a way of life. It is quite simple to me. To not allow any voices, anyone or anything to stand in the way of my goals. To be able to withstand setbacks, controvesy and many other troubles that life throws our way.

For the purposes of this site and its readers, I will also say that through somewhat challenging workouts and introspection and study of this topic, you will cultivate a mentally tough mindset. Again, my philosophy works for ME. As I have often said in my articles, take what’s said and make it work for you. For example minutes of non stop punching in a boxer’s case. In my case, heavy lifting and running for miles will create increased energy levels and an increased pain tolerance through training in the pain zone. You really have to get the body to know what pain is so you can endure it longer. PAIN is not injury, but if you push too hard through pain you will be setting up for injury, so knowing your training limits is necessary as well. Studying mental toughness (or at least how others go over) will shed some light on what you may be lacking. On the days when you feel like crap and you have to WILL yourself to go to work or to hit the gym. THAT too is mental toughness. Persistence and determination are all factors as well. Other terms used to describe mental toughness is inspiration, self-motivation and confidence.

 

There are many examples of those who bring themselves out of horrible childhoods of poverty, neglect, and illness to become heroes, mentors, millionaires, and presidents. That takes mental toughness in MY book.

Mental Toughness! How do you get it? Are you born with it? Can you acquire it? Arguments to this question have occurred long before our modern world came about. I am of the opinion that through tough physical training, proper mindset, and a high level of maturity that mental toughness is born. This toughness is what propels you through the storms of life and all that brings How do you get that?

Take for example, the Tour de France winner, Lance Armstrong. He had endured one of the toughest diseases by beating testicular cancer. After his battle with cancer, he came back mentally tougher and was once considered the greatest cyclist ever. Maybe he had it all along, who knows? Mental toughness is not measurable and is completely internal. But I believe hard work will get you there. When Lance Armstrong was asked by reporters “What are you on?” referring to performance enhancing drugs. Lance stated, “I am on my BIKE – busting my hump (paraphrased)for 6-8 hours a day!!”

So the question is do you get mental toughness by attending special workshops, or by being in the military/police or by playing sports? Is it by going through hard situations in life and learning from them? I would say the answer is a comination of all that. You can definitely become mentally tough by training and overcoming the trials and tribulations life brings, but ultimately it will be by the determination you make to be unstoppable and make the world a product of you.

I have seen a lot of people not win at life due to cracking under pressure. These daily gut checks that tend to make cowards of us all is something to behold. The pressures we all face tend to beat us down, and send us to our breaking points- that will cause us to lose focus and that’s how we fail. Not because of lack of talent, but because of broken focus. The break in focus becomes a turning point in your struggle/campaign.
This is the biggest difference in those who win in life and who do not. Everyone will have their nemesis or weakness. The key is to BECOME someone who rises to the occasion. Someone who will plow right through very arduous situations and come out with their heads held high. To deal with setbacks and not let them affect you.
In closing, I would like to say that Mental Toughness is definitely one of the basics. One of the master keys to winning in life. THE BASICS ALWAYS WIN!!!

Beating Procrastination

Procrastination… killer of dreams. Procrastination… killer of hopes. All by simply doing nothing. Simply by what’s called “active avoidance” (doing something in the place of the thing you set out to do due to fear, etc). Procrastination is a problem in every field, killing productivity, slowing growth in companies, ending some companies. Yes, procrastination is a problem. But how do you solve it? It’s a learned trait, but how to understand and defeat it?
I have compiled a list of 8 ways to beat procrastination. Basic steps- the basics always win. Basic steps that make a big difference. Before we delve into the list of ways to defeat procrastination, we must define it. Procrastination is the practice of putting off urgent tasks in favor of more pleasureable ones, thus effectively not doing the thing you set out to do in the first place.

All in all, procrastination is not laziness. It is a way that seems to be easier for one who is under stress. In the end, procrastination costs. It costs you (depending on the situation) time, it costs you all kinds of things you value and hold dear. In a lot of ways, Procrastination is insidiously easy. It can become a mindset of putting things off. That is the wrong mindset if you consider yourself a man or woman of action. Procastination can strip you of motivation, it can strip you of effectiveness, creativity and even honesty/integrity. It is dangerous to allow procrastination in your life.

Now… here’s the good news. Procrastination can be beat. YES. But what say you.Are you willing to try? This list I compiled will no doubt help you get to where you need to go. Procrastination is a force, but nothing, and I mean NOTHING is as powerful as the force of the human spirit. Here is the list:

 

1. Focus on an area in which you find procrastination most problematic (getting in shape, homework, doing reports for work).
2. Begin small and progress as you experience success. Be patient. Establish your own deadlines. Be realistic in setting a timetable. Hold yourself to the deadlines.
3. Break the project into smaller parts. Chip away at it in small bites. Don’t wait for that “big chunk” of time.
4. Set a definite beginning time. Break the inertia of inactivity. If getting started is especially troublesome for you, set a time for 10 or 15 minutes. Commit yourself to doing something on the project until the timer rings. Then you can decide whether to stop or continue. Chances are you will gain momentum and continue after the timer stops. If not, try another 10 minutes later in the day.
5. Do the most important things first. Avoid the distractions of the trivial and routine tasks when a higher priority job is waiting in the wings. Examining each task in light of your goals will help you set priorities.
6. Reward yourself for completing parts of a major task. It can be anything. Contract with yourself for a big reward for completion of important tasks. A pizza, sleeping extra late on a weekend, or shopping for something may help motivate you to complete the job. Be nice to yourself.
7. Establish a “Commitment to Excellence”. Excellence is a sufficient level of performance for most things in life, and for many tasks (a new hobby, cleaning your room) adequacy is all that is necessary. Give yourself permission to be less than perfect. A good garden may have some weeds. You might double the amount of time spent typing a paper, attempting to get the spelling perfect. Could that extra time be better spent in another activity which will gt you over the hump? Maybe so.
8. Procrastination is a learned habit, and can be defeated with a more constructive habit, giving your greater control over your life. If procrastination has limited your achievements, do something about it now!

The Total Self: How to Diet

In the spirit of “The Total Self” motif, I present a new view on dieting: How to pick one that will work best for you? We are in an era of unprecedented information about fitness, dieting and everything in between. We are also in the midst of the greatest obesity epidemic across all age groups in America ( by 2020, 76% of ALL Americans will be either obese or overweight). Almost everyday, the average person sees umpteen commercials about fitness (usually about weight loss). These body-image centric commercials sure put a lot of doubt in people’s heads about fitness and what it really means to be healthy. Almost all the emphasis centers around losing enough weight to look like a model. In this article, I will present at least 10 ways to pick the best diet for you… or to create one. Yes, you do not have to follow self-proclaimed fitness gurus, trainers, etc. As always, see a physician before starting any weight-loss regimen. Listen to your body. Now, the list.
1) If it’s not fun, don’t do it. Almost all health/wellness professionals agree that if you are not having fun and seeing results on your fitness regimen, you probably will not stick with it. Simply because some PAID model/athlete is endorsing a product on television (or some other form of media) does not mean that the much-ballyhooed product will even work. Of course, not every diet/weight loss plan is structurlly, scientifically sound (or makes sense). You also have to have a sense of satisfaction as a motivator to do the thing.

2) Evaluate the plan. Does it work? Is it faddish? Do you like what you see in it? Are you able to fit your lifestyle in the workout/diet plan? Conversely, can you fit said workout/diet plan into your lifestyle? Please consider all of these things before trying the “latest and greatest” diet or workout you may hear about, see or read somewhere.

3) Do not rely SOLELY on supplements: Supplements are great, but relying solely on them is not a good idea. As with anything else in life, moderation is key. You can even overdose on water (hyperhydration). Moderation is key. Use your head. LISTEN TO YOUR BODY.
4) Include exercise. Yes, all the carb-counting, label-reading goodness you do will never amount to much without exercise. Be sure it’s something you can handle and make it fun.
5) Eat your favorite meals and snacks (in moderation please). Yes, I said it. SACRILEGE, some will say. All jokes aside, you have to make the diet regimen tenable. This is definitely a way. Just don’t over-indulge in it. This defeats the purpose of dieting in the first place. Splurging on a “guilty pleasure” is just fine. Moderation is key.
6) Make a maintainence plan. Now that you’ve lost the weight, or are about to embark on your life-changing fitness plan… make sure you have a maintainence plan. A maintainence plan is sure to keep the pounds/inches off. Now that you have achieved ‘the look”, a maintainence plan will keep you looking sharp. The hardest part is indeed maintaining the achieved goal.
7) Be a tortoise, not a hare. You must keep a slow, steady pace when losing weight (or sculpting your body). Anything else is unhealthy. Don’t risk your life over a few extra vanity pounds. Don’t fool yourself.
8) Allow snacks between meals. Yes, more about food. Snacking is important. Snacking done healthily will curb cravings, thus keeping you in line with your fitness goals. Snacking done healthily will make the difference in you meeting your fitness goals or not. It also will be better for you health-wise.

9) Include all the food groups. Your body is a temple, the original machine (LaMettrie, 1748), the covering of your vital organs. Treat it right. Eating food from all the food groups is a sure way to ensure your way to the “promised land” of fitness is a sure-footed one. Treat your body right. Eating from all the food groups will help your body function as it should.
10) Leave room for improvement. Every diet has flaws in it. Who says it has to stay that way? Educate yourself, get to know your body. Tweak your diet based on your needs at the particular time. A constant of life is change and growth. So should your fitness journey.

In closing, I trust that these tips will help. These tips are essential to help you get what YOU need, not what the fitness pros want you to have. You have only one life… why not diet, exercise in the best way… YOURS.